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Everyday Something Has Tried to Kill Me and Has Failed

Notes From Periracial America

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"Genuine, unrestrained musings, both political and personal, on life as a Black woman in contemporary America...A highly rewarding, commiserating nod as well as an astute rallying cry."—KIRKUS (starred review)

"Concise essays that clearly convey that the fight for racial justice must continue in the face of backlash. A must-purchase for all collections."—LIBRARY JOURNAL (starred review)

Everyday Something Has Tried to Kill Me And Has Failed is imbued with the same kind of unapologetic, raw and unflinching honesty as McLarin's previous work, which makes it a welcome and timely read. McLarin wrangles boldly with topics such as aging and anti-Blackness, and in these essays I feel seen at a time when we—Black women approaching sixty and beyond—feel invisible, and/or seen in the worst possible light."—DEESHA PHILYAW, author, The Secret Lives of Church Ladies

"These essays are a wake-up call. A call to arms. A collective North Star. This is the voice of a Black woman writer who knows who she is. A writer who speaks in a voice perfect for this moment when we are simultaneously all falling down and being lifted to new heights."—MARITA GOLDEN, author, The New Black Woman: Loves Herself, Has Boundaries, Heals Every Day

"The Black female body in peril, a gun purchased in response to the surge of white nationalism, the loss of racial innocence—the cumulative effect of these and the other essays in this provocative, exquisite collection confirms two things: there are prophets among us whom we ignore at our peril, and the spirit of Baldwin lives on. And for anyone familiar with McLarin's work, you will find in Everyday Something Has Tried to Kill Me And Has Failed confirmation of this too: her assessments of America's social landscape remain as powerful as the love she holds for her family, her friends, and her race." —JERALD WALKER, author, How To Make A Slave and Other Essays, finalist for the National Book Award in Non-Fiction

"...come celebrate
with me that everyday
something has tried to kill me
and has failed."
―from Lucille Clifton, "won't you celebrate with me."

"What does periracial mean? It's a word I made up while casting about for a way to capture both the chronic nature of structural injustice and inequity of America and my own weariness. A way to label life under that particular tooth in the zipper of interlocking systems of oppression bell hooks called "imperialist white supremacist capitalist heteropatriarchy." (What a lot to resist. No wonder we're so tired!) To capture the endless cycle of progress and backlash which has shaped my one small life here in America during the end of the 20th century and the beginning of the 21st. To counter the idea―now largely abandoned but innocently believed for most of my adult life by white Americans on both ends of the political spectrum― that America has ever been post-racial. To suggest that I suspect, at this sad rate, we never will be."―Kim McLarin, on the meaning of Periracial

With accumulated wisdom and sharp-eyed clarity, Everyday Something Has Tried to Kill Me And Has Failed addresses the joys and hardships of being an older Black woman in contemporary, "periracial" America. Award-winning author Kim McLarin utilizes deeply personal experiences to illuminate the pain and power of aging, Blackness and feminism, in the process capturing the endless cycle of progress and backlash that has long shaped race and gender.

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    • Kirkus

      September 15, 2023
      Genuine, unrestrained musings, both political and personal, on life as a Black woman in contemporary America. McLarin, a professor of creative writing and author of Womanish, Jump at the Sun, and other works of both fiction and nonfiction, prefers "periracial" to the misleading term "post-racial" America. As her essays eloquently and devastatingly demonstrate, there probably will never be a post-racial America. The author covers a wide range of topics, including travel, hair, kindness, aging, misogynoir, education, her experience getting a gun license ("In Massachusetts you can get a license to carry a gun without ever touching a weapon, much less shooting one"), and thoughts on humans' relationships with dogs. "This is not a story about how my dog taught me to love or live or be a better human being," she writes. "Dogs are easy to love, which is why people love them, but human learning seldom comes from ease. Anything important I've learned in life, anything lasting or worthwhile I've learned only through great effort. Sometimes discomfort. Not infrequently pain. Dogs may teach us how to love other animals but not how to love other human beings, which is by far the harder job." McLarin makes her points so vividly that they are difficult to replicate or describe without direct quotations, and her assured, evocative prose is the kind only a truly gifted writer can achieve. The author's voice is strong, the mechanics of her arguments are always clear, and she demonstrates wisdom craft, and uncompromising ferocity throughout her observations. One of the central questions she poses is whether she, as a Black woman, can love a country that has repeatedly failed to reciprocate that love. "Put bluntly, our society is sociopathic," she writes. "If America were a person, the kindest thing to do with us would be to get us some help." A highly rewarding, commiserating nod as well as an astute rallying cry.

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    • Library Journal

      Starred review from November 3, 2023

      Novelist and essayist McLarin (Womanish: A Grown Black Woman Speaks on Love and Life) contemplates living as a middle-aged Black woman in today's American society in this astute essay collection. She says she has lived through three cycles of racial progress and its backlash and is no longer shocked or surprised when the latter occurs. In one essay, after years of being against guns, she describes her decision to learn how to shoot in response to the rise of white supremacy in the United States. In another essay, she laments how "stay woke," a phrase used in the Black community as far back as the 1920s as a global plea to stay aware of systemic racism, has been appropriated by right-wing politicians and ideologues and used in a negative context. While McLarin does not mince words about her thoughts on the state of being Black in this nation, she becomes more introspective on topics such as aging, hair, and motorcycles. It is in these essays that readers are able to delve deeper into her persona. The essay about her dog shows McLarin at her rawest as she recounts her pet's last days. VERDICT Concise essays that clearly convey that the fight for racial justice must continue in the face of backlash. A must-purchase for all collections.--Anjelica Rufus-Barnes

      Copyright 2023 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

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